This blog is dedicated to my self-reflection on how courageous I have been to challenge others’ opinions during my third MBA term at CULC. The reflection is based on CIPD’s description of Courage to Challenge (2016)
Firstly, this behaviour is about remaining calm and firm on my own opinion when facing opposition (CIPD 2013). In a class about Fairness in Resourcing and Talent Management module, my classmate Sara agreed with that pilots should definitely retire at 65 years old, considering that they are responsible for many people’s lives. Meanwhile, I believed age has different effects on different people and as long as the person passes periodical health check and other necessary ability tests, they should be able to continue working. After around 5 minutes of argument, both of us remained unchanged about our opinions.
Secondly, helping to move a lengthy debate or issue forward by pointing out pertinent facts is also part of courage to challenge (CIPD 2013). This term, two friends of mine in another group had conflict and kept blaming each other about some past actions. After observing and listening to both sides, I decided to intervene and convinced them that the most important thing is the upcoming tasks, that arguing about what already happened had no use, and that they should forgive each other and focus on the new tasks instead.
Thirdly, courage to challenge also involves consulting others for advice and suggestion when facing difficulties (CIPD 2013). In Employee Engagement module, on the actual day of the focus group interview, some interviewees cancelled in the last minutes, so I asked my teammates as well as the other interviewees openly about whether we should delay the interview or not. After that, we came to the conclusion of conducting two focus groups, 1 for Nigerians only and the other for Indians. They turned out to be very successful and in-depth interviews.
In conclusion, I believe that I already possess a certain level of courage to challenge, and it has helped me to discover more knowledge and ideas from others. However, I am still shy when having to give others feedback on their weaknesses because I do not want to hurt people’s feelings. To overcome this, I plan to learn how to give constructive feedback through training workshop available at CULC as well as consult my experienced colleagues.
CIPD (2013) Courage to Challenge [online] available from <http://www.cipd.co.uk/binaries/Courage%20To%20Challenge.pdf> [16 August 2016]
CIPD (2016) CIPD profession map [online] available from <http://www.cipd.co.uk/cipd-hr-profession/cipd-hr-profession-map/default.html >[16 August 2016]